Dwayne Holloway
True Forced Loneliness
October 15th, 2009

Why does it seem that nobody gives a dam about anybody but themselves anymore in the Global Dating Scene?

Another situation about True Forced Loneliness on a level that the majority of our population does not understand or doesn’t want to understand.

The Holidays are coming up again for another year. Going into the last half of 2009. And the cycle will seem to never stop. I’m not just “Ranting” here on this situation. This is the facts and it sucks…BIG TIME!!!

I have to see TFL sufferer friends all around me suffering year, after year, after year, after year, after year, after year, after year and after year. Times over again and with no change in sight. It hurts me emotionally to see people suffer what I myself has gone through so many times. I seen Bill Greathouse go through. I see friends in the TFL movement go through it.

Even a lady on YouTube called “KassieDill2” can see what is going on in the Dating Scene. But dumb jerks from all around the Internet attacks her for not having a Power Control Trip or from stepping down from her pedestal by design. And people attack her for not sticking to the norm of what is going on in today’s society. It pisses me off to no end and upsets me.

Kassie seems to understand the statistics of what is going on in the Dating Scene. And she see’s what is going on and I can respect her for that. Most people don’t understand her for what she’s trying to get out there to the population of her message. I respect this lady for not hiding behind a bunch of lies or a fake front. Like most people in our society of the world.

It’s becoming an evil planet by design. And nobody cares about another persons emotions and feelings anymore. We’re being dumbed down by Fluoride in our cities water supply. Society is collapsing by design. Hell is being reigned down on earth by the Global Elite and Hot Tyranny is being set up over here in Western Society of America. The Globe of our world is not safe either for that matter.

Why is it that there is less ladies going through True Forced Loneliness and the majority of TFL members and individuals that views our videos on YouTube and Daily Motion are men? Why is this?

Now I have dumb trolls that attack me in their own videos. Reading “Scripts,” like President Barack Obama reads his TelePrompTer to seduce and manipulate the public and people of our society to a New World Order dictatorship by design.

This troll and other trolls online don’t give a dam about nobody but themselves. Just like selfish people only care about themselves.

But that’s ok! I just put this troll that attacked me back into his own spot with the truth and not lies. Most people won’t agree with the information I put out there for the truth. But they can go straight to hell. I’m pissed off and I’m not taking it anymore from people’s bullshit at me, Bill, and this TFL movement.

He can go straight to hell like all the rest of the pieces of low life shit out here in our world. Most people would ask me “Dwayne…why are you attacking or giving attention to these idiots for?” well…these individuals that ask me this bullshit. Don’t seem to understand that I have been attacked, picked on, put down, fucked with my whole life, emotionally abused my whole life. And they expect me to keep putting up with the drama going on around me for the rest of my days and to be forced to go without somebody, because they looked at me to use any type of flaw or fault against me. Like they have none of their own? >=\

Everybody makes mistakes…EVERYBODY in life. The world is one big school and everyone is going to learn something new down the road in their lives.

But that is ok. Because you see! I’m not taking the drama and crap no more and I’ve had enough. You can only push a person so far before they start pushing right back. And when that person pushes back. The person doing the pushing in the first place. Won’t like his or her medicine. Won’t they?

As you can see. This troll had what he had coming to him. Because he CLEARLY has faults himself. I could of used his own flaws and faults against him. Just like he tried to use mine against me. But I only gave him a proper educated type of Pwnage he’ll never forget . And rightfully so in the process.

This is what I mean and what I’m talking about. Because the majority of people that attack us. Not only on YouTube or on our own TFL topics radio edition broadcast. Knows exactly what TFL or True Forced Loneliness means and what it does to a person. They just want to cover the truth up with their own lies. Because they are selfish and they don’t care about nobody but themselves. They treat other people like garbage and dirt their whole lives. But they don’t want to be treated like shit themselves. Just to try and fit into the Group Think Mentality or to be pussy whipped to thinking that a guy can attack me or others of the TFL movement. Just to get a girls attention to get into her pants and between her legs. Not knowing that the from my opposite sex’s point of view. They are helping to keep the drama in the Dating Scene going. And to help further the wrong doings along and deeper.

Thanksgiving is coming up. Christmas is coming up. News Years Eve Celebration is coming up. And still nobody is going to be here in my life or any of my friends life of women and men both of TFL sufferers.

Examples of the emotional stress of constant forced rejection overtime will be the following:

1.) Constant stress

2.) Emotional problems

3.) Depression

4.) Thoughts of suicide

Let me just make this very clear to those reading this article. Because most people think that a sex gender does not owe the opposite sex something. So such individuals cannot take my words and turn it around, later on of the following message:

- You cannot force somebody to like you.
- You cannot force somebody to love you.
- You cannot force somebody to want to be with you.
- You cannot force somebody to want to be around you.

The TFL movement can and does help others to cope of being constantly rejected in the Dating Scene.

But the more the majority of people out there that never stops to take sometime to put themselves in another persons shoes. Will never come to an understanding of what a person goes through from constant forced rejection from their opposite sex in the Dating Scene.

This whole dam society is messed up and corrupted on a Global Scale and it feels like evil is running ramped of our population.

You have the ultimate selfishness of people going around treating others like crap. Only care about getting laid or into another sex’s pants. Then to use them up and throw them away later on. But yet, they don’t want to be hurt themselves. Then they feel the need to hurt others. Just to have that excuse of “Better you, than me!” type attitude. It’s absolute nonsense.

People need to wake their minds and common sense up to how they are treating other people in their lives.

Because nobody deserves to be forced to be alone their whole life from constant rejection. Just because they have flaws or faults. Everyone has them. But to constantly have other people use someone else’s flaws or faults against such a person. Don’t want to have their flaws or faults used against them.

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William Greathouse
True Forced Loneliness
July 5th, 2010

With the others to not be an outcast to not be made in front of by others. This ends up leading a person to not think for themselves to not be themselves but to be a follower.

This is sad but truth. So many men and women in life have to feel that they need to fit in now, when you get a man or a woman who is not fitting in and they always get turned down for a date. This person can become someone who can become desperate and will do almost anything to fit in. This is one of the biggest problems in today’s world. Because men and women, as they grow up, they need to fit in or not fit in and there is a type of emotional pressure.

The group thinking mentality leads them down the wrong road in their life to be nothing but a follower. They will do almost anything from not being themselves to not thinking for themselves and this can, and will, lead someone who is very lonely in their life to do things they would not have done otherwise. And this is not good for them in anyway at all.

And when we have a World full of Evil. The one’s who like to use others to get their wants, needs, or to go out of their way to make someone out to be a fool.

Let me give you an example, OK?

You take a man or a woman who falls into this type of a category and they get into the wrong crowd, or someone who may be after something and sees them as “an easy target.” Now this person will use the one that is being the follower to get their wants and not care at all about the person they are using.

The person they are using has already given up the right to be themselves and most of the time, they won’t “say no,” they want to fit in, they want friends, they don’t want to be alone in this situation. This is why…

So now the person that’s seeing them as a target wants something they cannot get their hands on, so they manipulate the person whom they are just using into doing this for them. Now this person sometimes find themselves breaking laws for the person who is using them. Now this person can find themselves in jail for breaking a law, or find themselves in more trouble than they even know. They would be in this situation. All in order to “fit in.”

How Far Would Unpopular High School Student Go To Try To Fit In?

So many men and women out there in our society will do this unto another person. They will lie to themselves. They will then lie to everyone around them just to keep their cover just to fit in is a must for these types of individuals. Do you see what I’m trying to say here? see…and for a man or woman who’s living a life of True Forced Loneliness can be someone who is very, very open to this as they’ve been turned down or rejected so many times in their life from multiple people of that persons opposite sex. Then either the man or woman who may live a TFL lifestyle of Forced Rejection will not want anyone to know. So in essence, they will lie and say they had this girl or this man to make themselves seem what they are not able to fit into such a crowd.

They will not talk about this most of the time with nobody. Why do you think this is the case? once again, they do not want to be made out in front of others or cut down to not be able to “fit in” to be alone will scare the hell out of a person. Because a lot of men and women alike will have a big impact in their life.

How a person handles themselves. It will lead them down a road that nobody wants to be the one fit letting others to do your thinking for you is never a good thing in anyway, but our world has become so bad that everyone thinks this way. For the person who is not fitting into a life of living True Forced Loneliness, they will end up getting themselves hurt or messing up there own lives all for one reason to not be forced into loneliness and to not be the outcast in today’s world. Everything has been turned upside down on it’s head. What is “Good” is now considered “Evil” and what is “Evil” is now considered “Good.” Everything is backwards in the Dating Scene. It’s all become all about looks, money, stats, fame, and everything else in between that has not a dam thing to do with “Real Love.”

We are in a Mindset to say, “Play The Game!” or you would hear the PUA or Pick Up Artist community leadership that a person has to “Play The Game.”

Why do you want to play mind games or lie to each other, and not care about another persons emotions and feelings? all the while a person will only care about themselves. So now open up your eyes and look around you. What you will see is many, many types of children without a father or a mother in their lives.

How many men and women relationships ever last a lifetime anymore as it was meant to be? It’s not anymore and it won’t become like this anymore until we stop “Playing The Game” and until we know that you do not have to fit into a Group Think mentality in order to be yourself.

Start taking the time to become “Friends” with someone and get to know one another for real.

How many times have you heard the man say “Getting Laid is what counts in life?” do you see what’s going on here? “Getting Laid” is all about “Getting Sex,” when life is not about sex or getting laid or playing games with your opposite sex. Think about what I’m trying to say here. A person must learn to be themselves if someone don’t like you.

Who the hell cares what people think about you?

If these people don’t like you. Then “oh well.” Nobody is the same. Nobody has the right to judge for someone else. But everyone wants to think they have the right to judge for other people.

And one more point…

Looking for somebodies flaws or faults in their life, like they don’t have any of their own. Look at how you treat another person.

WAKE THE HELL UP!!!

We are all human beings. We all have messed up in our lives, as a Global Society. Nobody is and never will be perfect in our lifetime. We all make mistakes. But we learn from them and move on. None of us. Nobody at all is free from being “the perfect human species.”

So remember this important fact. “Trying to fit into the group think mentality or crowd, is not a good thing.”

Trying to run someone else’s life leads only yourself and others around you, into a life of misery.

Start thinking for your own dam self out there…PERIOD!!!

Sincerely,
- William Greathouse

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